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Bls: [psikologi_transformatif] Who is the real Master? What is the real Religion?

Menurut pendapat saya, intisari zen bukan di sini, tapi pengalaman !
Seperti orang makan sendiri cabe dan ketika diminta menjelaskannya, hanya diam seribu bahasa krn kemampuan kata-kata untuk menjelaskan realitas sangat terbatas ' yang sudah tahu, tidak mau bicara ; yang bicara tidak tahu '.
Lalu mesti bagaimanan ?
Itu seperti perkelahian bebas yang berbeda dengan latihan sparring.
Kita tidak bisa menduga jurus lawan karena itu reaksi kita tidak bisa diskenario, tapi hrs bisa muncul secara spontan dan akurat. Puncak penguasaan ilmu justeru di sini spt diungkapkan ' saya tidak tahu bahwa saya tahu '.
Berbeda dgn Socrates ' saya tahu bahwa saya tidak tahu ' karena memang dia benar-benar belum tahu !

Bagi yang pernah nonton film To Liong To - Golok Pembunuh Naga, bisa dipetik intisari ajaran ini ketika Thio Bu Kie ragu2 apakah bisa menghadapi dua musuh sekaligus yang ilmunya sangat tinggi.
Ia minta petunjuk ke kakeknya Thio Sam Hong,  dan diberi ilmu Tai Chi yang sebenarnya bukan ilmu baru, tapi intinya hanya melupakan semua ilmu yang pernah dipelajari, karena hanya dengan demikian semua ilmunya bisa mengalir begitu saja secara spontan dan akurat ketika meresponse tantangan dari luar.
Osho adalah salah satu bentuk persepsi memahami zen secara intelektual spt yang terjadi di Barat.
Mereka msh belum tahu apa sebenarnya zen !
Menyebarkan pikiran spt ini tanpa tahu masalahnya, hanya akn semakin menambah deretan salah faham saja.
Saya anjurkan spy dibaca dengan sikap kritis, tapi apakah tidak sebaiknya lbh memperbanyak latihan dan terus berlatih sampai pemahaman kita bisa menjadi second nature !

Salam,
Jusuf Sutanto

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Topik: [psikologi_transformatif] Who is the real Master? What is the real Religion?

Q:
Who is the real Master? What is the real religion?

A:
A ZEN MASTER was saying goodbye to one of his disciples, and the night was very dark. And the disciple was a little bit afraid, scared, because he had to pass a jungle of at least ten miles. And it was wild. And wild animals were there, and it was night -- and a dark night with no moon. And it was getting late -- almost half the night had passed. Talking to the master, he had completely forgotten.

Seeing him a little afraid, the master says, 'You look a little afraid, so I will give you a lamp.' He puts a small paper lamp into his hand, lights the lamp. The disciple thanks him, goes down the steps. And the master calls him and says, 'Stop!' And the master comes close, blows the flame off. And he says, 'A REAL MASTER GIVES COURAGE; HE DOES NOT HELP COWARDICE. You go into the dark, you be your own light. And remember: nobody else's light will be of any help; you will have to attain to your own light. BE A FLAME TO YOUR OWN BEING. Go into the dark, be courageous.' He says, 'A real master never helps any cowardice.' In a small act, by blowing the flame off, the master gives a great message: RELIGION IS ONLY FOR THE COURAGEOUS.

Those who followed Jesus, they were courageous people. They were not many, they were very few -- you could have counted them on the fingers. Those who followed Buddha were courageous people. Christians are not courageous, Buddhists are not courageous.

THOSE WHO ARE WITH ME ARE COURAGEOUS PEOPLE. Once I am gone, your children and your children's children may pay their respect to me, but they will not be courageous.

RELIGION EXISTS ONLY WHEN THERE IS AN ALIVE MASTER TO LIVE IT FOR YOU. When the master is gone, then religion becomes dead. Cowardly people gather together around a dead religion. Then there is no fear. They worship the scripture, they worship the word, they worship the statue -- all dead things.

But whenever a Jesus is there, or a Buddha is there, or a Mohammed is there, they are very much afraid. They find thousand and one ways to escape; they find thousand and one ways to rationalize their escape. THEY CONDEMN THE REAL MASTER -- WHY? THE REAL MASTER WILL NOT SUPPORT YOUR COWARDICE. He will not give you any more greed -- you already have too much -- and he will not make you afraid. His whole effort will be to take fear and greed away from you, so that you can become capable of living your life in totality.

CHRISTIANITY AND RELIGIONS LIKE THAT HAD TO HAPPEN. They have to be forgiven; don't be angry about them. But now they have to go, too -- now the world is no more in need of them. They are tumbling, they are scattering, they are dying. In fact, they are dead. But people are so blind that for them to know that their church or their temple is dead takes such a long time. They are so unconscious, they cannot understand it immediately. CHRISTIANITY IS DEAD, HINDUISM DEAD, ISLAM IS DEAD. In Islam, only a small thing lives, still has a flame -- that is Sufism. In Christianity, only a few mystics are still alive. Otherwise, the church and the pope and the Vatican are just cemeteries, graveyards.

In Hinduism, few mystics are still alive -- a Krishnamurti, somewhere a Raman -- but far and few in between. Otherwise, the shankaracharyas are dead people. But nobody goes to a living master. In Buddhism only Zen is alive. In Judaism only Hassidism is alive.

The organized religion is not the real religion. THE UNORGANIZED, THE REBELLIOUS, THE UNORTHODOX, THE HERETIC RELIGION IS THE REAL RELIGION -- HAS ALWAYS BEEN SO. Religion comes always as a rebellion -- its very spirit is that of rebelliousness.

THE DAYS FOR CHRISTIANITY, HINDUISM, ISLAM, ARE GONE. In the future, a totally different kind of religion, a different kind of climate, will surround the earth. RELIGIONS WILL DISAPPEAR; THERE WILL ONLY BE A KIND OF RELIGIOUSNESS. People will find their own religion individually; people will find their own prayer, their own way of praying. There is no need to follow anybody's prescribed idea -- that is not the path, that is not the way of the courageous. That is the way of the coward. And God is available -- you just have to become courageous to look into his eyes.

OSHO
Zen: The Path of Paradox
Vol 2, Ch #10: The Bridge but not the Water Flows
Buddha Hall




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[psikologi_transformatif] Be Silent and Listen



All that you need is just to be silent and listen to existence. There is no need of any religion, there is no need of any God, there is no need of any priesthood, there is no need of any organization.

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[psikologi_transformatif] Selayang Pandang Diskusi Draft Pengawasan Eksternal Seleksi Polri

Dear members,


Pada 7 Desember 2007, pukul 14.00-17.00 telah terselenggara Diskusi dalam rangka kerjasama LPPsi FPsi UI dengan Mabes Polri dengan dimediasi oleh Kemitraan-Partnership for Governance Reform in Indonesia. Kerjasama ini berawal dari kegiatan FPsi UI membantu Mabes Polri menyusun sebuah Sistem dan Instrumen Seleksi dan Perekrutan Bintara Polri yang bebas KKN.


Salah satu bagian dari sistem ini adalah adanya sekelompok pengawas eksternal (non Polri) yang turut serta mengawasi jalannya seleksi dan perekrutan Bintara Polri. Pengawasan ini bertujuan agar seleksi dan perekrutan Bintara Polri berjalan dengan transparan, adil, dan akuntabel; utamanya pada Tes Akademis yang berjalan dengan Komputerisasi (catatan: Tes Kesehatan tidak ditentukan dengan komputerisasi; dan Tes-tes Proyektif Tidak Ada lagi). Dalam seleksi Bintara Polri yang lalu, Kepolisian Daerah telah diawasi oleh sekelompok pengawas eksternal. Namun karena belum adanya standar pelaksanaan yang baku, maka pelaksanaan pengawasan belum berjalan optimal karena masih terdapat perbedaan persepsi dalam pelaksanaannya. 


Kasus: Pengawas menyatakan dirinya sebagai "Pengawas" kepada Calon Bintara Polri dan menekankan bahwa ia "berjasa" terhadap lolosnya Calon Bintara tersebut dalam proses seleksi yang terjadi.


Oleh karena itu, LPPSI FPsi UI telah menyusun draft buku Pedoman Pengawas Eksternal Bintara Polri.


Pertemuan 7 Desember di Balai Kartini Mawar Conference Room kemarin adalah dalam rangka penyempurnaan draft buku tersebut untuk diserahkan hasilnya kepada Kapolri cq. Deputi SDM, untuk diterbitkan S.Kep. dan diturunkan dalam Juklak/Juknis (Operasional) "Pedoman Pengawasan Seleksi dan Perekrutan Bintara Polri bagi Pengawas Eksternal".


Menurut Bapak Wilman Dahlan, fungsi Pengawas Eksternal ini dapat disebut secara ringkas sebagai OBSERVER.


Kriteria Pengawas Eksternal yaitu:

1. Tidak ada hubungan formal/struktural dengan Polri (independen)

2. Memiliki kepedulian, sikap objektif, dan tanpa pamrih

3. Tidak mencari keuntungan, baik secara individual maupun kelembagaan, berkenaan dengan posisinya sebagai Pengawas Eksternal

4. Tidak mewakili kepentingan lain


Berbagai lembaga yang dapat mengirimkan anggotanya untuk menjadi Pengawas Eksternal antara lain:

1. Organisasi Profesi (IDI, HIMPSI, dll)

2. Lembaga pemerintah yang relevan dengan kepentingan Seleksi Bintara Polri (Depdiknas, Depkes, Depag)

3. Lembaga pendidikan tinggi setempat (misalnya: Fakultas Ilmu Keolahragaan, FK, dst dari LPT/Universitas)

4. LSM

5. Media Massa

6. Tokoh Masyarakat (Pemuka Agama, Pemimpin Adat)

Syarat Lembaga yang dapat mengirimkan anggotanya ini antara lain adalah: lembaga yang memiliki AD/ART atau Kode Etik tertulis. Yang tidak memilikinya, tidak dapat menjadi anggota Pengawas Eksternal.

Yang mengatur dan membayarkan Honorarium bagi Pengawas Eksternal adalah Lembaga Pengirim tersebut, dan bukan POLRI yang membayar.


Dalam diskusi disepakati pula bahwa Rapat Kelulusan Hasil Psikologi ditiadakan; keputusan hasil murni berdasarkan skor-skor hasil tes & norma yang terkomputerisasi tersebut di atas.


Catatan: Di samping Pengawas Eksternal, terdapat pula Pengawas Internal, yakni:

MABES (IRWASUM, SDM, PROPAM) POLDA (KAPOLDa, PEJABAT, IRWASDA, PROPAM)


Muncul pemikiran bahwa berangkat dari draft buku Pedoman ini juga dapat dipikirkan untuk membuat Pedoman serupa bagi Pengawasan Seleksi dan Perekrutan Perwira Polri.


Hadir sebagai partisipan antara lain dari Perwakilan HIMPSI Jakarta Raya (Bapak Lukman Sriamin dan saya sendiri) dan HIMPSI Banten (Bapak Rizal Bachrun), serta sejumlah peserta antara lain Mabes Polri, Bapak Sarlito Wirawan (Ketua LPPsi), Bapak Wilman Dahlan, Ibu Debora Eflina, Bapak SS Budi Hartono, dst.


Demikian hal-hal yang dapat saya sampaikan. Terimakasih atas perhatiannya.


Juneman



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[psikologi_transformatif] Pelatihan Beberapa Teknik Dalam Terapi Keluarga

Dear members,


sebagaimana kita ketahui bersama sebelumnya, pada 24-25 November 2007 yang lalu di Cilacap telah terselenggara Pelatihan Beberapa Teknik dalam Terapi Keluarga, yang merupakan hasil Kerjasama HIMPSI DKI Jakarta Raya dengan RSUD Cilacap.


Berikut ini saya lampirkan Sambutan dari Direktur RSUD Cilacap.


Nantikan kegiatan serupa lainnya dari HIMPSI DKI Jaya. Barangkali di tempat Anda? :)


Terimakasih.


Juneman




Pelatihan Beberapa Teknik Dalam Terapi Keluarga


Himpunan Psikologi Indonesia (HIMPSI) Jakarta

dalam kerjasama dengan

RSUD Cilacap 

 

Terapi keluarga merupakan salah satu bentuk pendekatan untuk problematik keluarga yang perlu dipahami oleh psikolog praktek. Seorang psikolog dituntut untuk memahami dan bagaimana seseorang membentuk dinamika dalam keluarganya melalui berbagai perspektif teoritis yang diaplikasikan yang diaplikasikan dalam teknik - teknik terapi keluarga.


Cilacap, 24 - 25 November 2007


Gedung Jala Bumi

Pemda Kabupaten Cilacap

Jl. Jend. Sudirman 32

CILACAP


Pelatihan ini akan dipandu oleh Family Therapist bertaraf Internasional :


  • Dr. Monty P Satiadarma, MS/AT, MCP/MFCC, DCH, Psikolog
  • Natalia Indrasari, MA, MS, LMFT, Psikolog


Selengkapnya dapat anda baca melalui brosur dan form pendaftaran yang dapat anda baca di sini: 


http://www.himpsijaya.org/ 



Banyak keuntungan bermanfaat yg akan dirasakan dengan banyaknya psikolog yg hadir yg datang dari berbagai wilayah, berbagai kota, lintas pulau, dari berbagai institusi sehingga memungkinkan untuk sharing masalah-masalah aktual diantara kegiatan pelatihan.


Salam,

Juneman

HIMPSI Jaya



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[psikologi_transformatif] Osho, what are you doing here exactly?

Q:
Osho, what are you doing here exactly?

A:
Selling water by the river.

Master Sogaku Harada died at the age of ninety-one. At his funeral service hung a piece of calligraphy written by himself:

For forty years I have been selling water
By the bank of a river.
Ho, ho!
My labors have been wholly without merit.

That can be said only by a Zen master. First he says 'Selling water by the river' -- where there is no need really. The river is flowing: you can simply jump into the river and drink your fill. But people are so foolish, they need somebody to sell water even by the river.

Secondly he says 'Ho, ho! My labors have been wholly without merit.' That is a great statement. Zen masters say that if you do good, it is useless. Because basically everything is good -- how can you do any more good? If you make people enlightened, what is the point of it? because they were already enlightened -- you are not doing anything new! 'Ho, ho! My labors have been wholly without merit.'

First we go on selling water by the side of the river. Mm? If you are a little intelligent you can jump yourself. And finally we know all effort is meaningless, in vain. Because even if you become enlightened, nothing is gained. YOU WERE ALWAYS ENLIGHTENED.

But this can be said only by a Zen master -- the insight is so deep. Both things are profound. NOBODY NEEDS TO BE ENLIGHTENED, BECAUSE EVERYBODY IS ALREADY ENLIGHTENED. It is such a ridiculous thing for people to keep trying to enlighten you.

It is so ridiculous for me to go on enlightening you every day. And you are stubborn... and you will not become enlightened. And I go on selling the water by the river.... And you PAY for the water! And you won't look at the river, and the river is flowing by the side. It has always been there -- before the thirst is created, the river is there. Before the desire, the fulfillment.

So you ask, "What are you doing here exactly?"

Selling water by the river. Ho, ho!

OSHO
Zen: The Path of Paradox
Vol 2, Ch #2: Selling Water by the River
Buddha Hall






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